Feb 10, 2014

The "Socially-Acceptable Insanity" Of Being In Love... With Someone Else's Idea Of It

Richard Duffee
In the first of two provocative area presentations this week in response to Valentine’s Day, Hello, I Love You, Won’t You Tell Me Your Name? will plumb the Crusades, church/state relations, Islamic poetry, women's rights and other topics when Richard Duffee shares his research and conclusions at Curly’s tomorrow night at 7:30 regarding the origins of the wildly impossible conception of romantic love, incorporated as part of modern industrial life.
A PoemAlley fixture, egalitarian analyst of social power and author (The Slow News of Need, available from the “Collections and Anthologies” section below), Richard elaborates: “The shocking thing about Western love poetry is that the tradition does not assume one needs to know anything about the recipient of one's affections in order for one's claims to love to be credible. It's difficult to realize how weird this is because it's a feature of the cultural landscape that's been around for 900 years.” 
Because the output of Medieval troubadours and trobairitz (female troubadours) reflected their own romantic conceptions, as opposed to actual people, this helped set the stage, along with numerous intertwined social influences, for the senhalic, or fill-in-the-blank, adaptability of, well, affected affections as purveyed by today’s “sentiment-industrial complex” of greeting cards, candy, door-stopper-grade bridal magazines and wedding planning consultancies.
As for Tinsletown’s generous contributions, Spike Jonze’s Her (Warner Bros./Annapurna Pictures, 2013) makes a strikingly insightful break from this cheapening fixation in its portrayal of an emotionally hollowed-out divorcee’s romance with a self-learning computer program, set against a day-after-tomorrow Los Angeles which is, appropriately, Hallmark Card-cozy, while stringent in its devotion to socially-received (as opposed to individual) relational expectations:

Ingrid Burrington
Also surveying the urban crossroads of devotion and the digital, New York artist Ingrid Burrington’s pre-Valentine’s Day talk Connection Over Missed Connections at Franklin Street Works will scrutinize romantic longing across various cities as mapped out through a leading Franklin Street Works online classifieds hub. “Analysis of Craigslist Missed Connections postings and communities,” notes Ingrid of her show Taxonomy of Missed Connections, “offers a glimpse into the loneliness and sexual tension that serve as the linchpin of any thriving metropolitan environment.”

Part of FSW’s Neuromast: Certain Uncertainty and Contemporary Art exhibition, Taxonomy of Missed Connections is also a component of Ingrid’s Center for Missed Connections project and its mission to encourage a collective embrace of loneliness, both poetic and banal, within public spaces.
Find out more about Ingrid at her website, lifewinning.com. A free exhibition, Neuromast is curated by Taliesen Gilkes-Bower and FSW Creative Director Terri C Smith and will be on view through March 9.
When:
Thursday, February 13, 2014
6:30-8:00 PM

Joaquin Phoenix in "Her"
Where:
Franklin Street Works
41 Franklin Street
Stamford, CT 06901
(Light snacks and a signature holiday drink to be served)
Phone/e-mail:
203-595-5211

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